"so called friends" that constantly attacks you!?

Question

friends that constantly attack you..

I use to be around people who critized me, put me down, never had faith in me and pretty much thinking i was NOTHING in life..

I always i took all there B.S. and always got stepped on, I admit it may sound mean but maybe the reason why i took all the B.S. is because i had no one else but them and i didn't want to be lonely.

I then finally met a guy, that made me happy. His a really intellegent, loyal, humble guy. He treats me how every girl should be treated. I introduced him to my family and they accepted him of course, but when i introduced him to my friends.. they were talking behind my back about our realtionship. They constantly brought so much drama to our realtionship and we were just doing fine. They would judge our realtionship like they know, but honestly they don't know s**t abour our realtionship.. if they lived with us than sure they can talk all they like but they don't! My man avoided the drama and just minded his own business. I couldn't take it anymore so i would argue back. So finally i had enough and i keep distance from them because i was happy and why couldn't they just be happy for me? So again they would talk there c**p saying he was taking away from them from me... and it just was constant drama when i really i just couldn't take there bulls**t anymore..

So now i'm 7 and half months pregnant.. I'm due Oct. 27;

Ok well.. not to be mean but do they have a right to see my baby in the hospital, when threwout my boyfriend's realtionship and pregnancy there were hatting... cause isn't that wrong.

HOW CAN THEY HOLD MY BABY IN THERE ARMS, WHEN ALL THEY DID WAS DISRESPECT US. I MEAN THEY BABY IS APAPRT OF HIM AND I RIGHT??

Answer 1

Eventually you will need to forgive them because if you don't it will harm your physical body. However, whether you choose to allow them to hold your baby or not is based on whether you can trust them to hold your baby. If there is a possibility that they may come in and drop your baby to cause you more pain than I would not allow them to hold your baby. You definitely need to confront your friends for proper closure of the pain they have caused you. Tell them that you do not appreciate all the times they have talked bad about you and that you know that they have talked behind your back also. You may or may not be able to continue as friends with them. Be sure to confront them and then see if you can emotionally handle them as friends. I would definitely go out and start searching for friends that will support and encourage you. I hope the best for you.

Answer 2

Wow...

maybe now since you have him, you should leave them.

No they shouldn't be able to see your baby.