*sigh*Ok is my friend making sense?

Question

Ok, here's the deal. My friend is 14 and she's been goin out with this 15 year old guy on and off for about a year. Well she ended up losing her virginity to the guy she was dating before her now boyfriend. She told me she had s*x with her now boyfriend, and if they're still dating when she's 16, they will have a baby! A BABY! She honestly WANTS to have a BABY when she's 16. I told her she should wait it could ruin her life, but she said she and her boyfriend want a BABY. What The F***. What's your opinion on this because I think she's honestly crazy.

Answer 1

i think thats stupided she is a child and should wait even if you give her advice she might still keep her head up her a**, i kind of think for now you should leave it alone and when it gets closer to her 16th bday and she is still talking like that tell her parents. because babys shouldnt be having babies she wont be able to do all things she'll want to do when she gets around 18 +  she will miss out on so much and prob end up abandoning the child.

Answer 2

Honestly, I think she's a w***e to say such a thing.

I also with agree with you.

Answer 3

yeah i agree with you.

Answer 4

Pimpslap dat hoe *quapshh!!!)

Answer 5

I think someones jealous B)

Answer 6

yeah id feel the same way as u. i dont know what u can do, maybe try and break them up? lol no im kidding......this might just be a passing thing, and soon she will come to her senses and realise that having a baby at such a young age will ruin her life. u could try talking to her, calmly explaining that its not a good idea, try and find articles in newspapers magazines or on the internet about ruined lives after a baby at a young age to make her see sense. or u could tell the school counsellor, they arent allowed to tell parents or teachers anything unless its really bad, i think thats a pretty good idea, she wont get into trouble, she will just have to talk to him (or her) about it

Answer 7

Yeah I'm with you. WHAT THE F*CK was the first thing in my head.  How is she going to take care of it while she's in school? OR buy all the stuff it needs? A baby is pretty expensive. What if her boyfriend backs out in the end? Then she ends up pregnant at 16 while in school with no help from the dad. YEAH she's crazy I'm still thinking like WHAT THE F*CK?!

Answer 8

she just thinks it gunna be laughs and giggles but its not. once you have a baby you are a parent 4 ever!!!! and her whole years that are basically your partying years dating guys ans stuff if you are prego thats not happening and youll be a bad parent if you do that when you have a chld

Answer 9

Tell her parents what she told you. She needs to be stopped before she kills her childhood. She needs to learn about everything that comes with being a parent.

Well if you don't tell them, then she isn't going to be stopped. She shouldn't be dating at all.

Would you rather have her be mad at you, or her be a mom at 16? Think about it

You can also email me if you want to know about the struggles of a 17 year old mother, my sister.

Answer 10

I had some friends and they made some dumb choices.  well here is a better way to put it.  take your top five friends. most likely you will end up like them.  soooo   when my friends started using cocain i found new friends.

in otherwords she is a bad example and you need new friends.

Answer 11

i think ur friend needs a good old slap

Answer 12

i would tell her to at least get out of high school first so she can get a dipolma

Answer 13

Her parents need to be aware of this.  She made a ghastly mistake in starting s*x that young.  With s*x does come responsibilities (besides prenancy, there ar diseases which there are no cure for).  s*x should be for married adults and that's final.  But she is also thinking in a dreamland state of mind.  Babies are extremely expensive and need parents who will take good care of them.  Besides being cute, babies need doctor care, to be fed nutritiously, nutured well, to be taken care of.