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i just need someone to talk to is that too much to ask.

man

i just want to cry all the time.

and

get out

of this ******* house

even tho i know deep down

i am truely blessed

doesnt mean its okay for her to behave like that its a constant level of stress that is always there.

im so sick of letting guys use me

its to the point where everytime

my ex-boyfriend

tried to touch me

i flinched

and he didnt even tell me we'd split up

I found out by his bebo page.

because thats how truely worthless i was to him

i am.

k, ty.

night.

xx

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No one on this planet is insignificant - everyone is here for a reason, sweetie.  I was 35 before I knew MY reason for being here!  I am a late bloomer - everything came late for me all throughout my life.  Most people find out where they are going in their mid tolate 20's.  I don't know how old you are but please don't give up.  I am sure there are people that love you very, very much.  A boyfriend who breaks up on his web page is no boyfriend at all - what a wimp to not face you!!!  Hold your head up high because you are better than him!!!

Don't let anyone use you anymore!  Tell youself "NO MORE!!", and treat your body and your mind like they are the most valuable things on earth - and they are, ya know, because they belong to YOU!!!  Make sure that a guy has proven himself to be worth it before you begin a serious relationship.

Don't despair!  A little prayer here and there will help.  Try to get your best girlfriend to go out shopping with you!  Change your hairstyle, get some cool clothes, have your nails done, go dancing!

Things will get better, I promise.  In the meantime, hang in there.  Show the world the wonderful you, the you that no one can break down.  I'll be praying for you, sweetie!!!
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I know ive been there! Everything will turn out fine ! I suggest you write down 10 positive things about yourself, take a nice bubblebath,relax in front of a good movie , treat yourself to something nice !!! BREATH EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT !!!! good luck!!!!
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You're not insignificant and you're not worthless, that's wrong for whoever to do what they did to make you flinch every time your boyfriend touches you.

You're a wonderful person and it's ok.

If it's possible I might suggest if you have the ability, to try to seek a psychologist, it doesn't mean you're broken, or somethings wrong, but they can listen to you, that's what they're good at.
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Don'y worry everybody gets depressed. Trust me I've been there before.

You could e-mail me and we could talk..=]
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if you want to talk to me email or chat online with me my email address is footballstar24716@yahoo.com
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Hey! Don't feel insignificant!

I allowed myself to be with a guy I couldn't stand. I started out liking him, but after a month...he got a little wierd and for whatever reason I felt trapped. It got to a point where I couldn't even stand looking at him. I wanted to slap him when he would kiss me. Sometimes I even turned my head and would be like "oh sorry my nose itches" It was absolutely ridiculous. I got out...because I found a great guy...I don't know how, but he was just there for me to have.

And I definitely have always wanted out of my house.

It has never been stable and I get treated....lets just say...unfairly to say the least.

I just tell myself "free rent" Just get through school and I'll be out of there in no time.

Think about it...if you work hard and succeed you'll be out of there faster.

I figured I'll be here for about 3 more years of my life and then I'll be transferring to a college from the community college.

It will all go towards my future happiness.
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Please

see a counsellor

please
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I know this may sound strange, but it could be said that you're lucky you're even able to get close enough to guys to let them use you. I can't even get close enough to women to get myself dumped. So, ya see, there's always somebody like me who's worse off than you are...

Edit : Yeah, but sadly, I can't even do it when I'm drunk, so I guess you've got me beat. If I were younger, I could make a case for continuing to try. But at my age, why even bother anymore...?
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Hey hi how are you? Don't worry about anything or anyone, think about yourself. Take a deep breath and relax. Your an awesome person. Just love yourself. Go out with a group of friends, it sounds like you need to get out and have some fun. Don't worry hun. smile.

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Hey, don't worry. So he wasn't the right guy for you. Someday you'll meet a wonderful man who will love and respect and treasure you for the wonderful woman you are!!!!!!!! Keep your head up. You'll make it through this.
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