<span title="Cheating?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?">Cheating?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?...</span>

Question

Well im not saying this happened to me but im just wondering wat yall think..here goes..:

ok lets say this this guy that yur currently with loves yu and yu love him back, but then one day yu found out that he has cheated on yu and he says that hes sorry and h**l never do it again. Its been a year since he hasent done anything and yur beginning to trust him again. The question is: since you love him so much, will yu take him back?

Answer 1

what&#039;s with the allure of the &#039;what if&#039; questions?  Is life really all that boring that you need to wonder about all of the bad things that can happen?  I hope you&#039;re not dragging all of that unnecessary drama home to your SO.

Answer 2

It&#039;s not true that once a cheater always a cheater. Most men cheat to get laid. Very simple! I cheated on my first wife but have never cheated on my second, (present wife).

Answer 3

Sure why the heck not,  you love him give the poor sap another chance. But thats only if he tell you who he cheated with and what&#039;s the persons name. That way you won&#039;t be wondering to yourself is it this person or this other person he cheated with when you see your friends or other people he hangs around with everyday. Or someone who makes you suspicious of them. (If Its a total stranger cool)

Answer 4

NOPE.

Answer 5

ya sure. can i have 10points?

Answer 6

i really don&#039;t know what i would do.

BUT if he immediatly, within a few days, told me about his affair, then maybe i would give it a shot. i dont know.

BUT if i CAUGHT him, then def. not.  

Answer 7

If you are not married its JUST dating.

Dating is test driving people.

There is no commitment in dating.

Answer 8

No, you dump his *** when he cheats the first time.  

Answer 9

probably , everyone deserves a second chance

btw you can&#039;t spell.

Answer 10

mmm....i&#039;d give him 1 more chance but if he did it again i kick him 2 the curve

Answer 11

even if i loved him i would still end the relationship, because i wouldn&#039;t want to go through the pain and heartache ever again, a good predictor of what a person will do in the future is to look at their past.being sorry means nothing at all once betrayed the trust is gone.

Answer 12

Nope.  Once a cheater always a cheater.  Move On!

Answer 13

No I know by experience that once a cheat always a cheat! They will promise ,swear, take oaths and grovel , but if they get away with it they will do it again! and again ! and again! Go Ahead and believe him and take him back but 6 mo. or 1yr or2yr.s down the road. You will remember what I said and say why didn&#039;t I believe him we have a kid now! I know you will take him back cause you love him more than you like or respect yourself!!!!!!

Answer 14

ok well i used to believe in the whole once a cheeter always a cheeter. but then i experienced it myself and i still loved him after.. acctually loving him right now. and its like yours... its been a long time scince he cheated on me. and im going to give him a second chance. but the thing is it might be harder for you to trust him. but the thing is its been 1 year. think about it. EVERYONE changes in a year even if they dont try to.. so he COULD be different.. but i guess you wont find out until you try(:

Answer 15

of course not. if he loved you so much, then why did he cheat?

cheating is very rarely about s*x, it typically has more to do with empowerment, rejection of convention established in a relationship or seeking expolsion from a relationship. If it was about s*x, it would be an on-going thing.

Answer 16

I had the same thing happen to me! We are married now, and it&#039;s been 3 years since he physically cheated, BUT it&#039;s been very hard! I can&#039;t promise that he wont do it again! At times I think they just get better and better at hiding it! It could work for you two! But you&#039;re in for a tough one, if you go down that road! Good Luck!!

Answer 17

Get rid of his cheating butt.  

Answer 18

Once a cheater always a cheater in my book.  I&#039;d also not date anyone that can&#039;t spell you.

Answer 19

I&#039;d tell him to go s***w.. the fact that he&#039;s spent so much time with this Yu person (who is obviously an asian transvestite) is a giant red flag.

I&#039;m sure him and Yu will be very happy.

Answer 20

It all depends what really happened and what is the relationship about.  Love is one thing stupidity is another. I would have to know what where the circumstances about the cheating.

Answer 21

Well,

it can be hard moving on but you really have to go with what you think and your own judgment no matter what anyone else says i mean if you seriously love him and think about spending the rest of your life with him give hm a chance but if you cant imagine your life with him dump him it will save you some heart aches in the end.