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Question

I don't know how or when but I can't seem to be able to communicate anymore. I just can't think of things to say. Even when I do, it's to a certain point for ex:

Person: Hey, what's up?

Me: Nothingmuch?

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after that I don't really kno wat to say. how do u kno wat to talk about. i'm a rlly boring guy and cant seem to be able to talk anymore. i've lost the art of socializing. nowdays its getting so awkward. i rlly feel like i'm never going to make friends or get a girldfriend with this problem. how do u make a conversation interesting. what makes a person want to talk to you more evn though you r a quiet, shy guy who doesnt kno wat to say????? HELP???

Answer 1

OK think of the good things about you.

How old are you?

How tall are you?

What do you look like?

You used to be fine and you will be fine again if you concentrate on the positive things about your life

Email me NOW and start to tell me about yourself so that we can unravel what has upset  you and made you so negative about yourself.

Regards

Andy

Answer 2

I am having similar issues myself. I been an social outcast for several years in middle school and high school. After vegetating all these years, I sucked at socializing and had no clue what to say. So I started going into groups and listening as much as I can and try to participate by asking questions. Maybe tell a story like what you saw happen recently. Or talk about movies, music and etc. Gain knowledge. Read. I would recommend you reading a book called &quot;The Nonverbal Advantage&quot; by Carol Kinsey Goman. It will help you become more aware in social situations. Your not gonna get any better unless you talk to people.  

Answer 3

Yea AIDS...sorry dude...

Answer 4

If you have nothing to say why talk to that person? Give them an excuse that you need to go somewhere or do something. And if you talk to a girl about this problem that things can only go uphill from there. If you talk to a girl about your problem, she will open up to you. then things will become easier. And when people say &quot;whats up&quot;? say nothingmuch AND what have &quot;you&quot; been up to. they will most likely say nothing to but they will at least know you&#039;re interested.