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Question

ok so im in a band working on a career in country music. im very outgoing and i love to dance and be crazy. but for some strange reason, i feel like an idiot whenever i try to move and dance when im singing with my band. if anyone has nay tips to help me get over this "fright" i guess is the best word for it please help me. i dont have a problem dancing with friends family anything like that but when im at rehearsal with my band idk y i feel like i cant and i feel like itll look stupid.

anyone who has any ideas please help me!

thnx <3

Answer 1

I had the same problem a while ago. Thankfully my other band members were helpful.

My best advice would be to go online and do the whole embarrassing watching-what-other-people-do thing. It really helped me to be able to see some bands that I like use awesome charisma without looking stupid. Then, as hard as it is at first, you gotta practice your new-found moves. I know the feeling. You feel performing for the wall (while the other band members focus on their instruments) is lame. But it&#039;s an awful lot better than waiting until show time and being even more awkward. Let the other band members know about your fright. When you loosen up and start having fun, the other members will probably feel more free to express themselves too. They shouldn&#039;t think you&#039;re strange. Because when you get better at performing, it&#039;s going to help the whole band, and you&#039;ll connect better with the audience. Have fun! :)