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Question

well, i've been going out with this guy for just over two months and my parents really like(ed?) him. they had complete trust in both of us. well, tonight he kissed me like RIGHT in front of her and she freaked out, i really didnt want to and it happened to fast for me to do anything about it. (she was in the car) and honked the horn and i kind of ran into the car.

now shes totally mad at me, to the point where she wont even talk/look at me, im completely embarassed and mad at my boyfriend, seriously about to cry, and i dont know what to do.

i tried to apologize but she just got more mad.

anything would help, just please be nice.

Answer 1

Okay first of all, I think she&#039;s overreacting just a bit.

I mean, I understand that she probably didn&#039;t want to see that but it wasn&#039;t your fault and it&#039;s not like she&#039;s not going to see it eventually. What is she going to do on your wedding day when your husband has to &quot;kiss the bride?&quot;

Okay that being said, I understand that you&#039;re upset. I went through a similar situation last year except my parents weren&#039;t mad, I was just really embarrassed. I think that your mom might just be a little afraid that you&#039;re growing up. She might even be afraid that now that you&#039;ve kissed this boy, you might go further than that with him. It sounds crazy, I know, but these are the kinds of things moms worry about. So here&#039;s what I think you should do:

Write her a letter. Obviously talking to her isn&#039;t working because she gets more upset, but if you write her a letter you can say everything you want to say and she can read it in privacy and at her own pace. Just reassure her that it was just a kiss, and you didn&#039;t mean to do it in front of her, and tell her that you UNDERSTAND how she is feeling, but now she needs to trust that she did a good job raising you, and you have all the confidence and self-respect you need to make the right decisions in life. Let her know you love her, and she&#039;ll get over it.

Good luck, and don&#039;t worry about it, she&#039;s your mom, she&#039;ll always love you, you guys just hit a rough patch.

Answer 2

well thats weird!

thats just messed up!

look even if she doesnt say anything back just go up to her and say &quot;mom were dating. what are we supposed to do? not kiss? didnt you kiss when you were dating? of course you did. and im not little anymore. im sorry if you dont approve but im growing up.&quot;

and she doesnt hate you. thats impossible for a parent.

it had to happen sometine tho.

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Answer 3

well its gonna happen eventualy. she will be fine in a couple of days

Answer 4

Don&#039;t worry. Just give her some time. A kiss is not a big deal. your mom had to have kissed your dad before they got married I&#039;m sure. Your mom is being a b&amp;(*(.  Sorry but it&#039;s true. Why would she be mad at you?! And you didn&#039;t even want to kiss him. She should listen to you. She is being hypocritical too, because she has kissed your father. You can&#039;t tell us that she never kissed him before they got married.

I&#039;m sorry your mom is such a freak. When a parent gives you the silent treatment or &quot;hates&quot; you, that is emotional abuse. I feel bad for you. Make sure you build some strong friendships so that you can heal from what your mother is doing to you.

One day when you&#039;re not living home and married, you will laugh at this. Unless your mom constantly emotionally abuses you.. it will hurt but you will heal.

Answer 5

aw, im sry:( i mean come on tho, tell your mom it was just a kiss. i got a haircut about 2 weeks ago, and my mom was doing the same thing to me, because she didnt want me to get it, but now shes totally fine. the first thing u have to do is, not act too guilty about it, tell her that you&#039;ve been going out for awhile, and all he did was kiss  you. its not like you two had s*x, tell her it could be a lot worse, and that she should trust you. but i promise in a little bit, she&#039;ll stop being so mad and talk to you again.  

Answer 6

Give your mom some space. Talk to her either tomorrow or the next day. Just give her time to cool down. If you try and talk to her now when she is already mad she will just get more mad. Which isn&#039;t good for you. Ask her why she got really mad about you kissing him.  

Answer 7

That&#039;s weiiiird, how old are you? I don&#039;t think that was the most rational/mature way for her to handle the situation... ehh. I&#039;d say just stay below the radar for now, if you do kiss or whatever with your boy, don&#039;t do it in front of her. Hopefully sooner or later she&#039;ll cool down and maybe talk to you about it.

Answer 8

eh, shes just pouty i guess

Answer 9

she does not hate you,shes just upset.your little boyfriend didnt show very much respect by doing that.she will get over it,its shock..happens to all of us