<span title="Virginity...................................?">Virginity...................</span>

Question

What are your views on virginity? Other than religious reasons please. Is there a certain age that is more acceptable? Is around 16 too young? Should you be in love? We have always been told, growing up, that we should wait until we are in a committed and serious relationship and thats it's a big deal. Is it really a big deal? What do you think?

Answer 1

I say lose it as early as you can as people these days are all whores and pimps so lets just join the party shall we

Answer 2

i don&#039;t know about a certain age but you should be in love with him/ her so it will be special. you should be in a relationship to make it more special and it is a big deal for some people

Answer 3

idk.. i dont think that it really matters to be honest. I&#039;d like it to be in love with the person i do it. In the end though, it really doesn&#039;t mean much.

Now a days, i think it is more acceptable for younger kids to do it. Although i believe 16 is a bit young and just sounds young. 17 for some reason doesn&#039;t sound as bad.

I think it&#039;s just because we as a society [American] put such big emphasis on the &#039;first&#039; of anything. First baby tooth, first word, first car, first GF, first anything really. Or maybe it&#039;s just me whom thinks this. idk.

Answer 4

16 is ok

Answer 5

Well I was in love and married--- yeh old fashion way  nothing beats it your less likely to cheat and you appreciate each other more. kids now think nothing of hopping in the sack with anyone any time and dealing with  what ever happens.   Waiting -- worked for me not many people can say that .

Answer 6

i think when you&#039;re ready, you just are.

i guess age doesnt matter too much...

im 18 and still a virgin..i just havnt found a guy that i would want to take from me.

Answer 7

old enough to pee is old enough for me

Answer 8

As a mother who had her first child at the age of 16, it is a very big deal. A) you should be in love for it to really matter B) It should be a trusting relationship so you don&#039;t have to worry about the other person sleeping around and giving you some kind of disease C) Unless you are ready to get rid of your social life for taking care of a kid You should wait til your at least out of high school and have a job. So that you would be able to support a child if there happens to be an accidental pregnancy

Answer 9

This depends on whether you plan on having a monogamous relationship or not. Even with a condom, there is always a chance of STD&#039;s. Also, s*x with multiple partners can leave emotional discomfort. Hey, I&#039;m just spouting off what I learned in my &quot;Life Management Skills&quot; class. Stupidest class ever!

Answer 10

s*x is suddenly legal when the girl is 18. Better wait &#039;till then, unless you want jail or worse. As an experience lover, I think virginity is a hindrance. It&#039;s over rated. It&#039;s not desirable. Love and lust are interchangeable, and both fade pretty fast. Enjoy it while you can.  

Answer 11

idk-about 20

Answer 12

I waited until I was 18, I wanted to make sure I was in love first, but after your first relationship, it&#039;s ok if everyone fools around when you are single. As long as you are safe and use some sort of protection.

Virginity isn&#039;t a big deal for today, other then you need to be careful because some guys just try to get in your pants to lose your virginity and hopefully you can spot out those people.

Answer 13

on average 16  is about the norm. Or as stated above, when you feel your ready to handle ALL the responsibilities that come with being sexually active

Answer 14

Love has nothing to do with it. Some people attach religion to virginity. Personally, because we have free will, I believe virginity is a part of making a big decision in one&#039;s life.

I think that once you are educated on STDs, pregnancy, contraceptives, and you are emotionally stable enough to handle the mental side of loosing your virginity; You are ready,

What I mean by mental side is that a lot of people experience things like attachment, regret or infatuation once they loose their virginity.

Personally, I held on to mine until I was 19. Its not like I was holding it for religion or waiting for anyone in particular. I met a really nice guy and we dated for a while. We both liked each other very much. He seemed like the person I could explore with to that extent. I did not regret it.

I did not become attached to him until a few months later when we began taking each other more seriously. ^^;