...when did i become such a mean person?

Question

...when did i become such a mean person?

Answer 1

what have you done to say such a thing, perhaps your not mean just become self assertive. nothing wrong with that  

Answer 2

Come on.

Why are you seriously asking us?

Do you really think you'll get an answer?

You'll know more than anyone.

Answer 3

when I become meaner. its usually because I'm unhappy, i'm near people or things that are making me unhappy, im unhappy with what im dpoing in life, i feel hurt, i have unresolved issues, with myself and others. i would say, look at urself and ur life and try to find the source, maybe soem therapy will help u with this.  

Answer 4

maybe when you realized that by being nice,you had people walk all over you...so you decided to not care so much about others. just make sure you treat people who are great and nice with the same respect they give you

Answer 5

I think along the way we have been hurt and as a result harden and put up walls, and sometimes we lash out at people who don't deserve it. I can't say that nothing bad is ever going to happen again, but maybe you can find a balance between being careful and yet open enough. Don't be a pushover but don't be the mean girl that people hate to be around.  

Answer 6

you've probably always been a witch you just never realized it. (witch does not rhyme with anything intentionally).

Answer 7

It happened gradually during the first years of your life.  You've grown up in a mean world.  It's made us all mean.

Change is possible.

Answer 8

Who exactly says you're mean?  Do  you just think it or have you done something to somebody that makes you know you're mean?  Some days I feel too mean to even leave the house.  But other days you couldn't find anybody anywhere any sweeter.  I think a lot of it has to do with how I'm feeling at the time.

Don't be too hard on yourself and try to have a more positive attitude!

Good luck.

Answer 9

i don'know but...

what's important is YOU may change in a while:

go out ! give help to a poor, smile to a sad frail person, take away some rubbish from the park... suddenly you are GREAT

Answer 10

...when you changed your outlook on life...

Answer 11

This sounds like the result from being a negative person. You don't let people in your life, and don't want to let them close to you.  There is probably something underlying all of this.  The only way to get down inside of you, is for you to dig deep, and possibly even vent all your anger, pain, fears, weaknesses, etc...  to someone you trust. Once you get it out on the table, and realize what is there... then you can decide to change if you feel you want to.

If you don't want to be mean, you should read the book called, The Secret.  It teaches you the law of attraction, and if you have the right mind set, and open to changing, it can and will change your life for the better!

Thanks for reading!

Answer 12

After repeatedly being treated like ****.

Answer 13

idk most females become mean when they get their periods so maybe it was then.

Answer 14

the media, society, the people around you, basically anything can change you into a person you may not realize. If you're thinking of yourself as a mean person you probably have lost sight of the real you. Slow down take a look around and see what happened. Make adjustments if you need to.