♡ Myspace RELATIONSHIPS yes or no?

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Ok so there is this guy who sent me this REALLY long message on myspace saying that he saw my profile(I write a lot) and a bunch of other stuff about how I seem to be really mature and that what I wrote was really refreshing. He seemed to speak really well and be EXTREMELY educated. After a few messages back and forth we spoke on AIM.

Then for the past 3 days we've spoken on the phone for about 3 to 5 hours a night..

But one thing is that he just turned 24 today. I just turned 19 in April. Do you believe that to be a large age difference? Also he only lives 45 minutes to an hour away.

What do you think??! He seems really dorky/quirky which I like. What is the probability that he would be a psycho?

And would it be ok to hang out just as friends?? (That's ALL I want). Also, is it bad if I DON'T want to bring a friend along???

Answer 1

NO DO NOT meet people on myspace! so desperate and creepy!

Answer 2

There is ALWAYS a chance he is a crazy physco. If you do meet him in person make sure it is at an open place and you have a friend with you. Its for your safety girll. The age is a little bit much but your an adult. What you wanna do is up to you. Be careful with finding guys like this, it can be VERY dangerous.

Answer 3

I think you found a bad guy, even if I'm wrong, you shouldn't meet guys online. You could get hurt and that is a big age difference to me. Internet meeting and then meeting in person is WRONG, don't date people you met online!

Answer 4

for couples on myspace i personally dont think its a good idea. but friends? isnt that what myspace is for? just be friends and tell him that. its not bad if u dont want to bring a friend along.

Answer 5

The age should not matter it's only 5 years.

I would be careful and tread slowly and yes I believe you should take someone with you when you first meet. Like over lunch or coffee. And invite him to a few things your and your friends might be doing. Just to check him out. If he seems like what you are saying he should understand your causion.

     Give it a try but play safe.

Answer 6

The age difference is no problem. Highly suggested that for the first time you meet him during daylight at a public place (people around, in sight) close to your house, and don't be secretive. Let someone close to you (preferably parents or best friend) know where your'e going and at what time you expect to be back (set a certain time). Call that person to let them know all is good, or (hopefully not), things don't seem right. If that is the case have your friend meet you immediately. Don't leave that spot. Highly suggested you arrange for your own transportation.

Answer 7

I think you need to be very careful. You can never tell from a person. There's a huge chance that the man might be a psycho. I don't recommend you meeting up with him but if insist on doing so, it would be wise to bring more than a friend or two.  Age does not play a factor into emotional feelings and you are over the age of consent.

Answer 8

I don't think the age difference should be your biggest concern. i think your getting yourself into a potentially dangerous situation. be very careful!!!

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Answer 9

Just my opinion----I have met three guys on Myspace that I ended up meeting in person and liking. Each guy ended up being really weird. I have not had any good experiences with Myspace. I would not met anybody new or use it as a dating service at all. But you do what you feel is right. Good luck and be safe :)

Answer 10

To be honest.. Dont trust him.

I know it seems like he really likes you and stuff but you never know he might be a online predator.

Speaking fluently might just be a trick. Please dont trust him. You never know

Answer 11

Well... I think you have just enough chance to meet a rapist in a bar. I would go with a friend maybe? or meet in a restaurant .