♥Do you agree with this quote?

Question

'When you have chemistry with someone, you can't stay away from them, no matter how dysfunctional the relationship is.'

I do. Not staying away can make it worse in the long run, but still...♥

Answer 1

What are we, ants?  Creatures run on a hive mind, who respond only to pheromones and are helpless to go against our instincts?

No way.

People have brains, intelligence, logic.  We have to use these qualities.  

"Chemistry" between people is a blanket term that basically only refers to physical attraction.  That's a poor thing to base any relationship on.  There has to be more substance, and if a relationship is dysfunctional, obviously that substance is lacking.

At that point our brains should kick in and drown out our hormones a little and we should seriously start considering just what's wrong with the relationship and whether or not it can be fixed.

We should not be ruled by physical attraction to another person.

Answer 2

I would have to say I do not agree with that quote.   Dysfunctional relationships are never fun for either people.

Answer 3

you can stay away and u should

Answer 4

i guess you can argue that if a relationship is dysfuntional, u dont really have chemistry...

Answer 5

Well "chemistry" can be both a positive attraction or a negative repulsion. I would assume that you're only asking about chemistry of attraction.

I would have to disagree with the quote from my own personal experiences. Being married I do not believe in cheating or polygamy and have felt attraction to women; I have been able to control myself and work (or be friends) with these women.

I think this is all down to your will power, if you really want to be with the person then nothing will separate you. If you really don't want anything to happen, then it wont.

Last bit of advice: steer clear of any relationship which is dysfunctional, it'll be better for you both in the long run (and the short run!).

Answer 6

Well, sometimes you can't help who you are attracted to but that alone is not enough.  It can be difficult and painful to accept that a relationship is not working but it's better than living with constant disappointment.  It's best to be with a person who enhances your life rather than one who complicates it because life can be tough enough as it is.